You may have noticed SelfishMother.com has been down this week! We've had server troubles - your amazing words are just too damn popular and the site was straining under in excess of 10K visits a day.

Normal service will resume shortly, when you'll be able to share your posts again and read about modern motherhood in all its glory.

We *hope* you've missed us as much as we've missed you.

In the meantime you'll be happy to know that our shop is working fine.

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